What People are Saying
Disclaimer: These comments are from my readers and are 100% real comments that were made by real people, and they were not asked to comment. They reached out themselves.
What sets this piece apart from the universal bunch of be-better-texts, is how it’s not marketing, but it is honest, because it feels like a real person is writing it, and not someone trying to sell self-improvement via re-labeling stuff that we’ve heard many times.
So the specific hints are nice but not miraculous in themselves. Also you may put it into tags and numbers or don’t, well it’s catchy.
What counts is that it is curious and imaginative.
I can say this, explain that – bottom line: My guts agree with you.
- Fil of InterFilip
I sat here at my PC this morning, with a thousand ideas floating in my cerebal cortex of sorts……and once again, had no idea where to start. That friend of yours you described? Well, you might as well have been looking at me. So…there you have it. I’ve finally pinpointed my first obstacle – focus.
I intuitively googled ‘how can i get focused?’ ‘Cause that’s the question that popped into my head, thankfully i heard it! And da-da! Your page i selected from the list googled.
Having just read your brief intro:
1. I wanna join in!
2. I wanna ask the question: regarding ‘working harder’ – what about all that hoola that talks about working ‘smarter’ NOT harder?
I’d like your ideas on that.
(Not that i’m afraid of hard work – goodness! But…i often find i’m spinning my wheels-working-hard, my effectiveness is not as ‘effective’…and i so i question myself – am i trying too hard?
Forgive me if these comments are too naive, or such, but i have just jumped right in and decided to drop you this note.
I look forward to your partnership – In a life i want to live – on purpose and dare i say it?….amazing!
Kind regards,
“Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.” Helen Keller
- Angel Niebel
I greatly appreciate your effort on this project, and think it is an extremely timely and appropriate endeavor. I strongly suggest “Rapt”, by Winifred Gallagher. She examines different aspects of Attention, and it’s impact on our lives: from relationships, to work, to happiness. I’m really glad I decided to purchase that particular book, and there are insights from scientific studies about the best way to enhance attention, etc.
Very highly recommended…
Best,
- Gerald
- Omri
- ksaver, identi.ca/ksaver
Nice
- Bob
-Ghouse
Paul Larn
simplediagnostics.com
-Desta
C.S. Bezas
csbezas.com
It still amazes me how people allow themselves to be distracted by pop-up notifications, push notifications on their mobiles and so on.
Anyone using mac OSX mail will be pleased to know that you can also turn off the red sticker that says how many emails are unread in the osx toolbar.
That sticker is a huge source of distraction, temptation and loss of concentration!
Latteperday
latteperday.com
- Wil Beach
I am in the process of crafting a career change. I am looking to pursue something creative ie. web-design, graphic design, photography. Have been spreading my efforts across all areas and am beginning to feel the need to focus on one in order to develop a level of mastery. I am having trouble deciding which area I feel most passionate about because I like them all. I am feeling stuck.
I look forward to reading more!
- Catherine
I’m reading through all of this right now for the first time, and really enjoy it. I think the values thing is VERY important and something to think about.
As a side note, I know some people struggle with values and determining what they are. There are some AWESOME values card sorts you can find online by doing a search which are really helpful for figuring some of these out (for anyone who may be questioning them for themselves). Thought I’d put that out there since they’re a great tool, and I’ve used them with many college students and professionals (I work at a university)!
- Stephanie
Victor Powell
thescifibookworm.com
Ewan McNay
Mark Graves
However, I found that asking for our values directly after listing your own adds a fair bit of bias, and I find it hard not to agree with the 4 you’ve listed and adopt them as my own (though maybe this is just because I don’t have the focus to know my own values yet…).
I suggest moving this form to above your own statement of values, provided there’s a clear enough definition of the term, or maybe provide a link to some example values (sorry, don’t have one readily available).
Patrick Martinson
clearpathrobotics.com
- Steven
- Abhishek
I was thinking about your tip of doing one important thing at a day.
Cassio
devlab.com.br
I have one thing to add: PASSION! If you visualize what you have to accomplish and do it with passion then you are unstoppable.
I wish you all the best!
- Danka
I like to “get lost”, as you say in certain moments of the day. Sometimes i read a good book (i must admit i fall for thrillers) or i just lay down and reflect about a lot of things. This technique helps me very much to arrange my ideas and also to put myself into a stillness state of mind.
Cheers.
- Dex Barrett
- Joseph Jacks
- Shang Lee
just a few comments i think many people listen to music and work at the same time (i used to)I sort of did an experiment for my recent exams – i went to a quiet room, took the corner seat facing the wall and just studied. No computer. No music. i realized that if i actually stopped listening to music altogether while studying my concentration improves.
Another thing i realized is that sometimes when i totally lost concentration it’s better to take a nap/relax then to keep “attacking”. Continuing just makes it worse.
Thanks for writing =D i’ll keep reading
Cheers
- Beng Hui (Singapore)
Ron Sell
Champions4life.com
- Michelle
I’ve been following your articles for a while and i must say that they’re very helpful. Actually i already pre-ordered your book a few days ago.
I totally agree that we have to find our purpose in order to get a real satisfaction in what we do.
In my opinion, regardless where we work or what we do, our “mission”, if you will, is to leave some kinda trace trough the experience we gather in life. Or at least it’s what i think.
Apart from school, i have always been self-taught and that’s why i was able to have a job as soon as i graduated from school, and i’m really pleased.
That’s why i hated when friends and school mates said things like “You can do it because you’re smart” and i always felt like they must expect much from me because i was “the smart one”, “the gifted one”, which is not true, i just work hard and that’s it; there’s no magic.
Sorry if my english sucks; it’s not my native language. I’m from México, by the way.
Keep the good work.
- Dex Barrett
I stumbled upon your project and find it terribly important. Work forces me to multi task, which I define as “doing multiple things in rapid succession, yet none of them well.”
- Daniel Priwin
- Scott H.
- Marlon D.
The best way that I have found to remain on task is to turn off notifications for email, mark my IM status as busy or out of the office, and check for all notifications at specific intervals. I find that I need a break hourly from any given task, so that I can spend 15 minutes on distractions every hour or two (sometimes I just put my head back and try to clear my head of random thoughts that have popped up).
- Jim S.
Lya Santoso
fleea.nl
- James
This is the only part of your book that I’ve read, and I haven’t noticed any mention of managing work time vs. free time. By free time I mean quality time, such as playing an instrument, being with the one you love, with your friends, etc. We cannot just live as drones dedicated to maximize our efficiency in completing tasks; free time is a must. It’s reasonable to find strategies related to getting focused on “howtogetfocused.com”, but still, I do believe well spent free time is an integral part of our lives that might even have an impact on how we work every day.
Regards from Argentina,
Rodrigo
- Sean
I use RSS pretty heavily, and have not found a way to filter it. All of them look pretty good to me, and these are not news flashes or sound bites, but really good content. But there is too much of them. For example, I am a fan of Paul Krugman and I subscribed to his reading lists using the google reader. They are all pretty informative and interesting to me, but I am overwhelmed pretty soon. I have unsubscribed to all feeds in the past and then re-built the list to prioritize them, only to do it all over again. I am not sure focused syndication would work unless you put a hard rule and just say only 5 feeds are allowed, or something like that.
- Raj
I am looking forward to going through your material and making the change’s that I need to.
- D Granot
I’ve been reading a number of books and authors this last little while (Ziglar, Nightingale and others like Gitomer) and the issue I’ve always had a hard time with is the statement of goal-setting outlined for very similar reasons here.
I like your choice of word of ‘conviction’ instead of ‘faith’. I can’t help but intertwine thoughts of religion and god when I read faith, but conviction I can accept. Conviction seems to imply something that faith doesn’t, which is reflection of a thought and/or self, a concious steeling of resolve and the idea of “sticking to it”. For me, faith seems to imply asking and hoping that things will happen.
Can’t wait to read more.
CS Peters
- Eslam
Do like interest, at the moment got a few projects to finish that don’t really interest me, I keep on putting them back, then putting them back again. I will do try to approach these ones with “interest, intrigue and passion”
Thank you
steve
mynext.co.uk
Rachel R.
titus2homemaker.com
Huy Zing
I certainly could relate with the ‘busy-people’ syndrome and have experienced that ‘over-workload’! I had feelings of guilt and incompetence surface for a moment there, and then checked myself to realise that is exactly why i’m reading your material – to change these ineffective habits! Thank you.
May i add – point 3 regarding strategically lazy people: i was a little confused by dispensable vs indispensable. Perhaps it’s just i haven’t understood it properly? I would like to see a further example or explanation? Funny how i am having trouble with perhaps the very point at which will change my perspective! Yikes!
Can you elaborate?
Apart from that, i really enjoyed the following:
1. the brain processes meaning before detail (I will certainly make use of this at work!)
2. Concentration = driven by interest = driven by attitude!
I am often feeling the ‘odd one out’ at work when i display my enthusiasm, energy – amongst the ‘mediocre’ attitudes – but i will no longer feel embarrassed by that! Thank you!
I hope my comments assist you,
- Angel_Downunder
- Sam Cranford, www.samcranford.com
Jordan
avenuemac.com
Excellent post, thanks Scott.
- Nicolas Franz
- Justin L
- Nathaniel Broughton, www.GrowthPartner.com
- Will Christie
- Kadira, unfoldingcreativity.com
Jared Goralnick, awayfind.com
- This one really helps. All I had to do was to break up a complex task, write down point by point and tick each one of it as I complete it. End of the day it is amazing to see how much we have done.
- PK, www.taskbender.com
Hilaire, twitter.com/ilookinterested
I’ll keep your recommendations for future trainings with our customers.
We just let them use “pro” tools when they reach certain level of skills and confidence. It’s like blogging, we have to learn to read, before comment, and then, just then, decide if we want to fire up our own blog.
I’ll be waiting for your book!
Cheers,
Rolando Peralta, CommunitiesDNAblog.com
- Niel S.
Z’da, Lexxtech.com
Jose G. Gonzalez
- Teeps, fine.art.photo.net
jennifer jones, jenniferjones.com
Lionel Ancelet, twitter.com/LionelAncelet
As others have mentioned, I think it is very easy for people to get obsessed with the pursuit of big numbers and constant updates, which just leaves them feeling deflated when the followers come slowly and the updating loses momentum! I think it is all about going in with a clear plan and setting the expectation early on in terms of how often you tweet/engage.
In terms of the larger transition you speak of, I am personally getting much more out of Twitter these days, as I previously found it difficult to engage with the more trivial “making popcorn in my kitchen” type tweets. I now think of Twitter almost like a mind-reading search engine, with the people I’m following regularly “serving up” content that I find interesting, even though I may never have thought to search for a particular topic myself!
Be interesting to see how this transition evolves!
- Liam (@biggerplate)
AnnaLaura Brown, annalaurabrown.com
Ted Rex, designthoughtfortheday.blogspot.com
It was very disappointing that he/she stated this and I instantly lost the awe of his/her fame and expert status. For 13 months being on Twitter and others for my personal and business use have decided just as you say – I follow for the value and the relationship I have or hope to build with that person.
My follow/following numbers are small and I intend to keep them that way – regardless of what the “experts” say because it works for me.
Cindy Bruce, eoseasy.com
Cheers!
Boscan
Cheers,
Ted, tedlsimon.posterous.com
Phyllis Cheung
my-wedding-concierge.com
Dubai-Boy, creativemf.com
Using lists I also use twitter- when I am there- in another way. Particularly because I am erratic about getting on, I have put the people I find most interesting into lists, which cut down the number of tweets to look through. Then, in a list on a topic that interests me, I look through the tweets and harvest interesting links into multiple tabs across my browser. I have found a lot of interesting information that way- and without a slavish devotion to checking who has just posted on twitter each hour. I go across the browser and check each link- close the ones that really are not for me, and read through the rest. That’s actually how I found this post of yours.
thanks
Rebecca
- Rishabh R. Dassani
(@marknutter), nuttersmark.com
I live in a small town in Brazil, and I spent all my free time playing tennis or watching movies. I usually read some books and science fiction is my top pick. I love real science too, and Carl Sagan really inspired me.
I completely agree about productivity apps. You have to focus on what really matters now. If you forget a task an hour after know that, probably it is not important. A productivity app will help you create a lot more unimportant things, giving you a false sense of productivity.
luis, twitter.com/luisbebop
Sloan, twitter.com/swelldone
Gary Rowe, gary-rowe.com/agilestack
Pacquiao Clottey
It is fascinating to see a company out there dealing with this issue
and indicates that perhaps the business world is beginning to understand the huge role that creativity has to play in its success. Thanks so much for your post, which brought this company to my attention – what a great resource! Im looking forward to keeping up withyour blog
KD
- ConstantFocus
- Jay Joseph
It’s definitely given me inspiration and clarity to continue and improve my self momentum.
Mikael Tate, mikaeltate.tumblr.com
Also, I completely agree about productivity apps. One can spend so much time “optimizing their work flow” and organizing that they get no real work done! I often suffer from this, but I’ve found the best way to get work done is to use the tools you’ve got on hand and focus on each individual task completely. Oh, and of course, stop browsing the web. Shit… I’m procrastinating again, back to work!
Nathan, littlebiglab.com
Senthil
Human brain is not made to multitask and the distraction of a TV makes the brain switch focus back and forth between work and TV and so forth. Each time needing extra mental resources to pickup where it left off. How can one become creative or solve problems when they are distracted from solid productive state.
Since moving to Silicon Valley (CA) last year from Sydney, Australia my wife and I decided not to get a TV due to this reason. Time is better spent reading a good book and/or exploring the beauty of our world then watching TV. As Jim Rohn said “Leaders are Readers”.
Ernest Semerda
blog.ernestsemerda.com
Take care,
Sten Morten Misund-Asphaug
corelizer.com
John, johnkhawam.com
Kevin Kaiser, kevinckaiser.com
- Ashley Marie
Stop waiting, and get focus back in your life now! Click here to begin




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I found this book very helpful. I am satisfied with the content but but formating of it’s pages was disgusting. I ordered a printed version and I supposed to receive a regular book but it was like a draft brochure. There was a table of concepts and it was unusable because pages are with no number! Sometimes title is in one page and fist paragraph is in next page and in some cases the last line (or first) line of paragraph is in another page. Getting a book in this condition is insulting for customers and reading this book was too uncomfortable.
Scott,
Just finished reading your book on the Kindle. Very thought provoking. I have started last week to put some of the principles into practice. Very mature writing style. Easy to read. Kindle version had a number of spelling errors. I assume these were not present in the printed version.
One note, I was hours away from ordering an iPhone. After reading your book, I decided against it. Thanks again for helping us to navigate the tricky world of 21 century distractions. Steve